Attraction is Not a Choice
Today we’re going to talk about attraction and why attraction is a science and not a choice! We’re going to be answering questions like “What makes a person attractive to others? Why do people become “Famous”? And most of all how do You tap into the phenomenon of attraction marketing and the law of attraction? How can you become the leader that everyone wants to work with?
The Science Behind Attraction
The answer to these questions lies in basic human psychology, so that’s where we’ll start. Some of this stuff can be pretty complex but when it’s boiled down to the basics and you realize that there actually is a science behind attraction it’s pretty easy.
So here’s the deal; People figured out a loooooong time ago that there was safety in numbers… Duh right? Well this survival instinct is ingrained into our DNA… Birds fly south, squirrels and bears hibernate and humans form trusting relationships and follow leaders.
Why do we follow leaders anyway? Essentially humans are hard-wired to find other people attractive or unattractive based on the value that that person has to offer. People are attracted to leaders because through association to that leader the people that follow him gain a portion of power aka value. Another reason people follow leaders is to gain experience and confidence to challenge for leadership themselves or to go off and start their own group/tribe.
How Leaders Use The Law of Attraction
I think another great quality that good leaders convey is a sense of vision. These kinds of leaders don’t just believe in the law of attraction they actually live it. These are the kinds of people who can be dead broke and somehow they’re able to share a vision so strong that others can easily see it and believe in it too no matter what the external circumstances look like.
Attraction is a Science Add Value and Live the Law of Attraction..
Here’s the take away. Human beings have an almost uncontrollable attraction to people who offer a high level of personal value and who convey good leadership qualities. The other thing you should keep in mind is that if you don’t convey these qualities you’ll have a hard time in most everything you do. So if you want to make it big just make sure you’re offering value to others and step into your power as a leader who protects and adds value to his or her group.
Be on the lookout for tomorrows article because we’re going to find out what leadership category you’re in… Alpha Pre-Alpha or Beta. Hint: Other people don’t decide what category you’re in.